But God is. God has the perfect shoulder to cry on.He has made me feel comforted when I needed it. God knows what you need to do in any situation. He has advice to give you in the Bible to fit any situation. Or if you have a good christian friend that you can pray with, maybe the two of you can pray together and God will give one of you the answer you need. God wants you to lean on Him. He is the one constant in your life that will never leave you.