I decided that we would break out a game instead. And the most interactive game we have is called “Apples to Apples”. The game is about green cards and red cards. The green cards have adjectives on them. And the red cards have nouns on them. In each round players take turns being the judge and rest of the players play. The judge chooses a green card and the players pick one of the seven nouns in their hand that are best described by the adjectives. This is the cause of much laughter and bickering. The player who wins the most green cards after seven rounds is the winner.
So first there was the argument over who was going to deal the cards and then who was going to go first. Thankfully, since the oldest kid present, Sophia, dealt; the youngest kid, Curtis, got to be judge first. The first adjective pulled was “gooey”. I don't remember what the other nouns laid down by the other players were but the card judged to be the closest was “cold dead fingers”! A lot of the nouns are proper names and people and difficult to match with the adjective provided in the game, but the comment was made if “cold dead fingers” began to decompose, they would certainly start to get gooey! Ironically, the very next card I drew after that round was “amoeba”, and I told everyone I drew it which got lots of laughs. But later in the game, my “amoeba” card won the “nauseating” green card. Often there are arguments over judgment calls because one person thinks “heroism” describes the civil war and “offbeat”, tattoos, while others disagree, since my 21 year old daughter has tattoos. And we were laughing when someone put a “super models” card down for “grotesque”, but of course it didn't win. It was definitely a memorable evening, especially since sometimes all we do in the evenings is watch tv and not interact with each other much. It was a great change of pace. It would have been even better to do as Cesar Kuriyama suggested and record our game to use as "One Second Every Day", but alas, I didn't think of it until now.
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