There is a scripture in the Bible about nagging. " Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife." Proverbs 21:19 The best tip for not having to repeat yourself over and over again is to write a list of things that needs to be done by your husband and put it in a place where he is sure to see it: the fridge, in his car or in his office. You write to do lists for yourself don't you? so you have to inform him if he doesn't want to hear you repeat yourself over and over, then he has to pay attention to his 'honey do' lists. But if these things are not done, you may have to write the list over again. so it might be helpful if you make a copy and keep it for yourself until all tasks are checked off. In addition to making the lists though, you have to pray that he will fulfill his biblical husbandly duties, to love his wife (and take care of her and his family) as Christ loves the church.